An adult content creator has revealed the strict boundaries she keeps while attending sex parties and addressed the growing concerns over dangerous events overseas.
Tru Kait, who entered the adult industry in 2019 while juggling a marketing job and weekend personal training, says her journey into the world of adult entertainment began with fitness shoots and eventually evolved into OnlyFans content.
Speaking to news.com.au, the American-based star described how her initial content involved nude shoots without showing her face. Over time, she expanded into filming sex scenes, exploring her sexuality and gaining a loyal following.
Her growing openness led to her first experience attending a sex party — a decision she initially approached with caution.
“I was just more open to new experiences, and I thought, why not?” she said. “Worst case, I could just leave earlyctually ended up a good time.”
Dispelling the myths
Tru says the reality of these gatherings is far from what many imagine, referencing the 1999 film Eyes Wide Shut as a common misconception.
“People think it’s some high-energy, mysterious orgy.
Butually relaxed — people are talking, connecting. There’s a real sense of honesty and respect.”
One aspect she values most is the emphasis on communication and consent. Every event, she says, includes a check-in to discuss personal boundaries and comfort levels — and any intoxicated guests are barred from participating.
“Everyone’s there to explore safely. You can just be yourself, say what you’re into, and know you won’t be judged.”
Clear limits and personal safety
Kait explained her boundaries shift depending on the party. At times, she only engages with a partner or chooses to interact exclusively with women. And if the atmosphere doesn’t feel right, she doesn’t hesitate to leave.
“I’ve been to parties where the vibe was off — maybe too many new people or people not respecting space. I trust my gut and step back if something feels wrong.”
Global concerns spark concern. Reasons
Her comments come in the wake of global scrutiny following the case of Maria Koleschuk — a woman reportedly found severely injured after allegedly attending a hotel sex party in Dubai. The incident has prompted fears of exploitation and trafficking.
Kait was firm in drawing a line between consensual events and what she described as “dangerous” gatherings.
“From what I’ve read, those parties sound dehumanising to women. The parties I’ve been to are about mutual respect, clear boundaries, and safety. I wouldn’t compare them — they’re worlds apart.”
Advice for newcomers
For anyone considering attending such events, Kait stresses the importance of research, bringing someone you trust, and always advocating for your own boundaries and sexual health.
“Every party is different,” she said. “But safety and consent should always come first.”
