A long-serving Catholic priest has stepped down from his role at a Coventry church after nine years, citing negative experiences with “unfriendly” parishioners and a culture of criticism.
Father Pat Brennan announced his departure from the Holy Family Catholic Church in a parish newsletter, saying that while he holds “many fond memories,” a vocal minority contributed to his decision to leave.
He wrote: “You can’t please all the people and those few who have been vocal in criticism, in and outside of the parish, have contributed to my leaving.”
The priest’s parting message included both gratitude and frustration, with references to dwindling attendance and what he described as disdainful attitudes among some members of the congregation.
Father Brennan, who was ordained in Birmingham in 1992, will remain in ministry and continue as parish priest for two other churches: Bulkington and Bedworth.

In a statement issued to the BBC, the archdiocese described Father Brennan as “an experienced and much-valued member of the clergy” who has led three parishes simultaneously in recent years.
Father Brennan is also known for his long-running blog, Humble Piety, where he publishes poetry, personal reflections, and theological musings.
One of his recent poems, titled Not I Lord Surely!, appeared to critique a culture of gossip within the parish and may have alluded to tensions that impacted church attendance.
The poem hinted at the emotional toll of his role, suggesting that judgmental attitudes and silent disapproval may have contributed to feelings of disillusionment.
In his newsletter farewell, Father Brennan stressed that many parishioners had supported him and that the church’s sense of community remained strong despite challenges.
“I was very happy at Holy Family and had the privilege of meeting so many wonderful people,” he wrote. “I am proud of how the church looks now. Visitors have spoken of a restoration of dignity.”

He also referenced the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic, noting that livestreamed services had drawn new participants and continued to reach people even after restrictions were lifted.
“The Covid times opened the parish up to many others,” he said. “They took comfort in watching the liturgy and being uplifted at that time, staying with us online since then.”
His departure and candid reflections have received widespread attention, with local media outlets and radio stations picking up the story and quoting his poetry.
In response to the sudden wave of publicity, Father Brennan penned a second poem titled Slow News Day?, in which he reflected on the unexpected media coverage and his own discomfort at hearing his name discussed publicly.
“It’s been confusing,” he wrote in the poem. “You hear your name on the radio, and it feels surreal.”
Father Brennan said he intends to continue writing and serving the wider faith community through his remaining pastoral roles and online presence.
He will officially be replaced at Holy Family by Father Charles Miller, who is due to take up the post at the end of July.
The parish community is now preparing for a new chapter under fresh leadership as Father Brennan transitions to focus on his remaining responsibilities.